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<p>Hey Upstate NY brides and grooms. Chat here about the best tips, Knottie GTGs, and wedding planning in your area.</p>

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<p>Hey Upstate NY brides and grooms. Chat here about the best tips, Knottie GTGs, and wedding planning in your area.</p>

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posted at 1/21/2012 1:25 PM EST on theknot.com

kymbrak12

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UPSTATE NEW YORK

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Posts: 1

First: 1/21/2012

Last: 1/21/2012

I'm going to be a bride for the second time ! I was married for 12 years no children in first marriage ! I was 18 and we just went to the jp and got married cause my family forbide the marriage! But I have meet this wonderful man and we have been together for almost 3 years now we have a wonderful 11 1\\2 month old and its his first marriage ever and his family is helping with the wedding but I feel wierd cause they want me to have a wedding like its the first time I ever been married they think cause I didn't ever have one that I deserve the things I missed out on they are very wonderful people! But don't know if its right!

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Re: confussed

posted at 1/21/2012 5:23 PM EST on theknot.com

melntaitt

Joined on
02-20-2011
UPSTATE NEW YORK

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Posts: 1330

First: 3/15/2011

Last: 5/23/2012

Don't ever believe that you don't deserve nice things! If you want the beautiful, glamorous wedding then go for it! If you don't you could go with a simple,"thank you but we are planning something smaller. We will let you know about our plans soon but thank you so much for all your help."

120 ready to party!!

Wedding Date: 6/8/2012

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Re: confussed

posted at 1/29/2012 11:41 AM EST on theknot.com

oxj7822

Joined on
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UPSTATE NEW YORK

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Posts: 33

First: 11/26/2011

Last: 5/8/2012

I just had my second wedding. My fiance never been married, and i have a son from my first marriage. We didn't want a big affair, and we are not into the lovie-dovie stuff, but something my fiancÃ© said after his brother's wedding made me think. He was standing with his brother at the altar and imagining me walking down the isle. That's when I thought I should kick it up a knotch. I am glad I did. We had a small high end wedding.
And yes, everyone kept telling me I need to do this and that, but it's up to you to make a decision. It's what you want! Hope it helps.

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