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What are your priorities?
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What are your priorities?
Hey Columbus brides and grooms. Chat here about the best tips, Knottie GTGs, and wedding planning in your area.
Sacrificing might be too strong of a word. But most of us have things that are highest on our priority list (for us it is including my FI's HUGE family, open bar, great location) and some things that
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What are your priorities?
Hey Columbus brides and grooms. Chat here about the best tips, Knottie GTGs, and wedding planning in your area.
Sacrificing might be too strong of a word. But most of us have things that are highest on our priority list (for us it is including my FI's HUGE family, open bar, great location) and some things that
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What are your priorities?
posted at 2/9/2012 6:51 PM EST
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Sacrificing might be too strong of a word. But most of us have things that are highest on our priority list (for us it is including my FI's HUGE family, open bar, great location) and some things that are lowest, and we have to maybe do bare minimum or cut something out completely (beachfront honeymoon, DIY centerpieces, very small guest list, etc). I was just curious as to what people were prioritizing.
maybe we can help each other out!
For example, we aren't doing a fancy cake. Just sheet cake for our large guest list (~200). I don't need the cake cutting pics and it's not all THAT important to me, but my mouth waters every time I see someone posting about the fillings and the frostings. But the traditional side of me gets sad about this.
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/9/2012 8:05 PM EST
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I'm spending less on my dress and accessories so we can do things like nicer flowers. I'm also DIYing invites, save the dates, and other stationary to save costs (and because I don't like most of the ones I've seen). Since we want to do a family style meal with two main dishes instead of the one that is offered at our reception hall, we're cutting liquor and just doing beer and wine (and soda and stuff). For cakes- Costco has really good sheet cakes and some of them have good fillings as well, if you want to look into that. We got one for a graduation party that had something chocolate mousse type stuff in the middle, and they serve a ton. So good! Also, if you still want to do a cake cutting, you can find something small for the two of you to cut and serve sheet cakes- it's pretty normal and the cakes are usually cut elsewhere anyway. |
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/9/2012 8:17 PM EST
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I am doing a lot myself so I can get a lot of the things I want, I made my own veil, centerpieces, and what nots.
I scrimped on my invites we got them at michaels, I think I went cheaper on most stuff to get more of what i wanted!
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/9/2012 8:51 PM EST
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Ditto what Tiffany said.
I am doing A LOT of DIY.
Save the dates, card box, invitations, cake topper, I made a brooch bouquet, I am sparkling my shoes... Centerpieces, all other paper items (place cards, table numbers, etc).
Our wedding is also on a Sunday. Not that we were looking for a Sunday to save us money, but because of the date. The Sunday is just an added bonus :-)
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/9/2012 9:27 PM EST
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Honestly, the only thing that is really important to me is that at the end of the day, we both said our vows and we're married! I did my own invitations, and am doing my own decoration, the few we are having. We have a VERY small budget, so I just don't care about how things look. The venue is pretty so I don't have to do a lot of dressing up.
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/9/2012 9:39 PM EST
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We are doing an outdoor wedding in a city park, so we don't have to pay for the venue itself. Our reception venue is also in the park and is very cheap. Our catering will be from a local restaurant rather than a wedding caterer. We are not having a videographer. All reception decorations are going to be DIY, as will STDs, invitations, and as much more as I can do.
My priorities are photos, my dress & accessories (though I am still being budget-conscious), and the cake. Oh yeah, and my horse-drawn carriage. :D
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/9/2012 10:36 PM EST
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Ditto to the other ladies! I am doing a lot of DIY! Centerpieces, all the decorations, flowers (i bought fake but putting everything together) cake stand and topper, card box, STD's/invites/programs, sitting chart and place cards, bridal party and parents gifts... omg what am I NOT DIY'ing. I do not have a very big budget and i want to look back and be proud of everything I did to make it the wedding I have always envisioned! :) I cannot wait until the big day!
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/9/2012 11:09 PM EST
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We spent a little more on our venue than I had initially planned, because I didn't want to have to do anything myself - I didn't want to find a caterer or anything, and they are ordering linens and doing our centerpieces. The room we have is so pretty, we won't need much. I also spent a little more on my dress, because I bought the one I absolutely loved.
I am lucky to have some friends helping too - one of my grad school buddies's wife is designing my invitations, and the best man's brother has DJ equipment so will be doing that for us.
I will likely DIY other paper things - table numbers, name cards and programs...this assumes that when I graduate in May I won't get extremely lazy lol
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/10/2012 8:56 AM EST
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priorities for me and FI are:
1. venue (Via Vecchia - i love this place)
2. food (Catering by Scott - he really takes care of his brides)
3. photography (Kelly Maughan Photography - total girl crush on her)
we splurged on all three. other than that the budget is way tight in other categories.
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/10/2012 9:35 AM EST
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Our priorities were:
1. Venue
2. Inviting everyone we wanted
3. Open bar
Lower on the list:
1. Flowers
2. Paper goods (although I still thought ours turned out really well!)
3. My accessories
4. RD
I am with a lot of girls though--I DIY'ed so much stuff so I could have more of what I wanted. I didn't feel like I really had to sacrifice a lot because I saved so many other places.
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/10/2012 10:42 AM EST
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MissOwl- I am also using Catering by Scott. I loved him so much. He had a special in January that if you booked with him in January you got a free wedding cake. Plus he was about 4000 cheaper than the other caterers we saw :-). He is going to be on the Franklin Park Conservatory approved caterer list next year so I got lucky that way :-)
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/10/2012 1:14 PM EST
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@ameliah, that's great! how cool! he really is a very nice man. also, don't know if you know but he's on the knot best of columbus list this year!
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/10/2012 2:55 PM EST
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I would classify our wedding as "middle of the road" on all things. We didn't pick the most expensive venue, caterer, florist, etc. I love photography but I really only care if I get 15-20 really great photos from the day so I didn't go all out on my photography budget. I still love my photographer but she is less than $1,500.
My caterer offered to do my wedding cake and cupcakes as part of our package. I LOVE cake so I am kind of sorry I don't get to go cake tasting, but at the same time this is a big savings. (Also using Catering by Scott--love him too!)
The important things for us are:
-Venue (we are also using Via Vecchia. My parents and FI and I all fell in love with it and loved it even more after talking to the owners)
-Food and beverage (we are doing open bar)
-Entertainment (live music for ceremony/cocktails and DJ for dinner/dancing)
-Decor (I am hiring a florist but I am also planning to DIY a lot of it as well)
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/10/2012 3:23 PM EST
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top 3: venue - which is free with our food and bev. flowers photos
skimped on: invites and stds (did it with staples) plan on doing own decor two locations, all at same place...so no need for transportation costs
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/10/2012 4:18 PM EST
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Ajoyd- Did he not give you cake to taste? At our meeting he gave us white, chocolate, red velvet and lemon raspberry cake to taste. They were all delicious, and I am not a cake fan, so if you didn't get to taste you won't be dissapointed :-)
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/10/2012 4:40 PM EST
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Ameliah, he is the exclusive caterer at Via Vecchia so we haven't done a tasting with him yet because we really didn't have a choice whether to book him or not ;)
Hopefully there will be a tasting in the not too distant future!
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/10/2012 7:01 PM EST
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Top Prioritiesmaking the wedding fun & semi casual = like us (not stuffy) Food that we actually like inviting who we want open bar Photos
not: cake- we don't care at all about cake, so we are going to make it funny RD trying to do as affordably as possible video- not doing proffesional - might have friends try to get bits and pieces but we both hate watchin ourselves on video so its not worth it
everything else is middle of the road, I'm trying to get the best prices we can, but it's still adding up so much!
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/10/2012 8:26 PM EST
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Top Priorities:
Great food and open bar - a must
Dress - always been a dream!
Entertainment - our dance floor better have the fire marshal called because its too crowded.
Bottom Priorities:
Invites
RD
Flowers - just not into them too much.
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/10/2012 11:02 PM EST
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In Response to Re: What are your priorities?:
Our priorities were: 1. Venue 2. Inviting everyone we wanted 3. Open bar Lower on the list: 1. Flowers 2. Paper goods (although I still thought ours turned out really well!) 3. My accessories 4. RD
Posted by jnkreager
^^^These exact same things for us too.
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posted at 2/10/2012 11:36 PM EST
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Priorities 1. Inviting the people most important2. Food-I've been to way to many weddings where the food was awful, not at my wedding I refuse lol 3. DJ-I hate lag so the music better be good all night
Less important
1. Flowers- I'm not a huge flower fan anyway and have been looking at alternative centerpieces (but may still buy flowers in bulk at sams club or something) 2. Invites and Save the dates-Got my invites at michaels, save the dates will be done with magnetstreet.com and or shutterfly 3. My accessories- definitley not spending a ton of money on that
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Re: What are your priorities?
posted at 2/11/2012 5:17 PM EST
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I don't think that we have any specific priorities....the only thing I have really splurged on is my dress. Other than that, we have focused on staying within budget...we don't want to start our new life in debt. Also, convenience has been a HUGE factor. We rented a venue 3 mins from our house, that we could rent fri and sat for $1500. This way we can set everything up the day before and have our wedding day be as stress free as possible. I want my wedding to look as nice as possible while keeping all my bases covered and also staying within budget. So i guess those are my priorities :)
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