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Gift for Bridesmaids and reader??
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Gift for Bridesmaids and reader??
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Hi everyone, My future sister-in-law is going to be doing a reading at my wedding. She will be with myself and the bridesmaids while we get ready. Should I get her the same gift as my bridesmaids? Or
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Gift for Bridesmaids and reader??
Is a family member or your BFF getting married? Get and give advice here.
Hi everyone, My future sister-in-law is going to be doing a reading at my wedding. She will be with myself and the bridesmaids while we get ready. Should I get her the same gift as my bridesmaids? Or
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Gift for Bridesmaids and reader??
posted at 2/9/2012 7:32 AM EST
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Hi everyone,
My future sister-in-law is going to be doing a reading at my wedding. She will be with myself and the bridesmaids while we get ready. Should I get her the same gift as my bridesmaids? Or something similar? I don't want her to feel left out, but I also want my bridesmaids to feel special.
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Re: Gift for Bridesmaids and reader??
posted at 2/9/2012 8:21 AM EST
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In Response to Gift for Bridesmaids and reader??:
Hi everyone, My future sister-in-law is going to be doing a reading at my wedding. She will be with myself and the bridesmaids while we get ready. Should I get her the same gift as my bridesmaids? Or something similar? I don't want her to feel left out, but I also want my bridesmaids to feel special. Thanks Posted by kristabaker
What did you get them? Did you get them all the same thing?
I might be inclined to get her the same thing if you are giving them all the gifts at the same time. I might feel bad if I got a different gift if I was "just" a reader. Or make it *very* similar in size and cost.
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Re: Gift for Bridesmaids and reader??
posted at 2/9/2012 8:42 AM EST
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I agree, it doesn't have to be exactly what you got your BMs. Get her something you know she will like, as if you were shopping for her birthday. This is a good rule of thumb for your BMs anyway/as well.
Your BMs shouldn't feel less special if they get the same or a similar gift as your reader. If you are that worried about it, simply do gifts in private, rather than at the RD (what a lot of people do- we are giving ours privately).
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Re: Gift for Bridesmaids and reader??
posted at 2/11/2012 10:34 AM EST
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Everyone who has a part in the wedding should get a gift. Bridesmaids, flower girls, ring bearers, ushers, readers, singers....
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