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Re: MOG Troubles.....
posted at 2/7/2012 2:19 PM EST
on theknot.com
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In Response to MOG Troubles.....:
I am in desperate need of some MOG help.. I really dont know how to handle my FMI.. She seems to either have a problem with everything I'm doing in planning this wedding or can't seem to handle getting her own dress to look right.. I all started with the guest list..(Keep in mind that my dad is paying for EVERYTHING except the Rehearsal dinner.) First she had issues with how many people their side could invite. Which I feel if she wanted the extra people that she could cough up some of her own money rather than expecting my parents to pay for her random work friends to come.. That just her first spree of complaining. Next it's time to order invitations.. My mom and I sat down and decided the wording of the invitations and ordered them. In my opinion, if my parents are paying for the entire wedding and it is taking place in the state they live in then they are the host parents.... right? Well not according to my FMI... She has seriously thrown a huge temper tantrum because her name wasnt on the invitation. She even went so far as to tell my fiance that "i'm not coming to the wedding then!" .... The worse part is that my fiance is a huge mama's boy and will take his mothers side on ANYTHING! She even called my mom to tell her how upset she was that her name wasnt on the invitation.. and told my mom that she thought they were supposed to pay for everything even the RD. Problem #3.. Her dress.. so my mom and I are at the florist and I call my FMI and ask her to text me a picture of her dress.. Oh my gosh! I got a picture of a dress that did not remotely work with the wedding colors and it was DARK NAVY/ LOOKS BLACK dress with FULL SEQUINS! I bout killed her.. she knows the colors of the wedding and that navy is not remotely one of them.. and come on.. who wears as the MOG a FULL sequined dress.. and this was yet another situation that my FH took his mothers side and got mad at me for saying something to him.. Idk what to do anymore.. am I wrong for these things?? what do I do? and how do I handle a fiance who ALWAYS takes his mom's side?
Posted by Kylieskakery
If you don't want to be married to a spineless momma's boy who will never put you first, there are three things you need to do.
1. Don't date a spineless momma's boy who will never put you first.
2. Don't become engaged to a spineless momma's boy who will never put you first.
3. Don't marry a spineless momma's boy who will never put you first.
That's it. That's the only way to guarantee your H isn't a spineless momma's boy who will never put you first. Otherwise you have nobody but yourself to blame because you know exactly what you're signing up for and once you and he say "I do," you lose the right to ever complain about your H being a spineless momma's boy who will never put you first.
Easy peasy.
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