Okay, so I decided I don't want to have children at my wedding. My fiance and I decided we don't have a big enough budget, and we don't want kids running around, and for the most part we're being supported.
I don't know, however, how to do this. One family in particular is giving me a hard time. There is a young child that is about 10 or 12 and the oldest (whose wedding I attended) is almost 30. I would like to invite the older siblings whose weddings I was at, but don't want to have the kids there. If I'm not having any other people under 18 there I can't have the young kid there when no one else will be that young.
There are I think 5 other kids in the family that are older and would be able to go, but I'm not sure how to word anything regarding who I can invite. I don't want to write "and family" if I'm not having the entire family there.
Help!