i give you my life this day
in the presence of god and according to his will
i leave my father and mother 
and now cleave to you
according to the will of god and my desire 
to be your wife and your friend 
to stand by you as we share our life together
leaving my father and mother
i now commit myself to you
i give myself to you
i will love you as christ loves the church giving my life for yours
i will lead and protect you as we share our life with god who gave us one another
i will love and believe in you to this day forward