I met my FI in highschool when we were juniors when he briefly "dated" one of my friends. They would come over to my parents' house all the time and watch movies with and my then boyfriend. My FI and I were really good friends back then. We would IM and text each other all the time and he would call me-but it was mostly to complain about his GF. Well after a few months they broke up and she blamed it on me. We were bestfriends since kindergarten and she hardly talked to me the end of that year or during our senior year either. Her mother openly bashed me to just about anyone who would listen in our little town and even went to my dad's office and yelled at him! I obviously had nothing to do with them breaking up like they thought I did...I only listened when he would complain.
Well fast foward a few years and my friend and I reconnected our sophomore years of college. We were really good friends again. I was glad because like I said she had been one of my bestfriends my whole life. Well my sophomore year of college I also reconnected with my FI and we started hanging out and dating. When she found out she was an absolute terror to me once again. One time she asked about going somewhere with me and then made the comment "Nevermind, you don't want blood in your car". Pretty childish if you ask me. Now she is nice to me, like she has gotten over it FINALLY.
My FI and I have been dating for 2 years now and recently got engaged. So do I invite her to the wedding? I refuse to invite her family because of the way her mom has treated me. But, she was such a good friend of mine and I feel like I should. I know she would be okay with it if I did invite her, but I don't want it to feel like I'm rubbing it into her "haha I have him now" sort of thing.