Community› Wedding Discussion Boards› Chit Chat
Chit Chat
New Discussion

Stressing begins

amber thompsonamber thompson
First Comment
in Chit Chat
4months til our wedding and i feel as if nothing is/has been accomplished.
venue-Check
dress-check
Dj-check
photography-check
table pieces-semi check

but other than that im not even close. my bridesmaid havnt been there for me. I thought the only hard part would be them not agreeing on a dress....nope. its them actually going and LOOKING

-stressed out bride.
Report Reply to Post

Re: Stressing begins

  • jjolovichjjolovich member
    100 Comments
    By the look of your list you have all the BIG things accomplished, so that is a major plus, and like Linger said, maybe get some ideas and send them out, or give them a color and let them find one themselves.

    Keep in mind the only thing the HAVE to do is show up, dressed in what you agreed upon they dont HAVE to be there for you.
    Wedding Countdown Ticker Flowers
    image 160 Invited
    image 2 are ready to party with there boots on! image 0 have better things to do image158 are trying to find there boots
    RSVP Date: July 25th
    Report Reply
  • ShellipuppyShellipuppy
    10 Comments
    You have several things done! Don't stress too much, it'll all come together, I am finding that out myself.
    As for brides maids, I agree with the ladies above. I didn't take all mine at once, but a couple at a time. In the end i ended up picking a color & they all chose own dress, but you could always just choose the dress if they are unwilling to get together...
    Take a deep breath!
    Report Reply
  • librababylibrababy
    500 Comments
    I uderstand how you feel.  I have a few major things checked but still feel like I have so much to do ugh!  

    And my bms.  We had a bm meetup at my house a few weeks ago where we discussed price and color and style and we chose a dress but the one bm that missed the meetup decided she didn't like the dress after i sent her an email to the link so we decided to change it (thay all have to love the dress and be comfortable since its the same dress).  

    So now we have another meetup (I have to get them all at the same time to just get it out of the way as they are all busy and have lives and one of them lives about 30 minutes away).  Since we're having the dresses made, we have to meet with the seamstress so she can get their measurements and we can have a discussion with her and I am hoping we can get this all done sunday and get that checked off the list.
    Daisypath Wedding tickers
    Report Reply
  • amber thompsonamber thompson
    First Comment
    thank you ladies for responding. Im proud to say i have found the bm dresses! <3 i had a meeting myself with them and suggested since we all have busy schedules that im just going to give them each a color and just go find a dress. they didnt like that idea....so today we went together and found the perfect dress for them. i couldnt be happier. :) another check off the good ol list <3
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards