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Unwanted guest help me!!!

lbaby810lbaby810
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I dont know what to do?  My Fi's brother wants to bring his girlfriend.  THey are not serious and she is totally innapropriate.  SHe will ask me to trade with her and tells me she wants my fiance?  She constantly makes jokes about wanting my fiance and wishes he wasnt getting married!  I have already told my FI's mother and brother that I do not want her there and my future brother in law said too bad she's coming!!!!!  What do i do?  One remark out of her mouth on MY wedding day and I am going to lose it!!!
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Re: Unwanted guest help me!!!

  • nda_roxybabenda_roxybabe member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_unwanted-guest-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4ae41a51-54db-4b6c-84a2-11519e43562aPost:87704e0b-87d4-41d8-af57-265b21648ee4">Unwanted guest help me!!!</a>:
    [QUOTE]lbaby810 Joined on 07-27-2009 CONNECTICUT 4196843234142873 Total posts: 1 First: 5/14/2010 Last: 5/14/2010 I dont know what to do?  My Fi's brother wants to bring his girlfriend.  THey are not serious and she is totally innapropriate.  SHe will ask me to trade with her and tells me she wants my fiance?  She constantly makes jokes about wanting my fiance and wishes he wasnt getting married!  I have already told my FI's mother and brother that I do not want her there and my future brother in law said too bad she's coming!!!!!  What do i do?  One remark out of her mouth on MY wedding day and I am going to lose it!!!
    Posted by lbaby810[/QUOTE]
    How long have they been dating? You're sure they're not serious? Because he is your brother I would let her come

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  • angiem33angiem33
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    Options:  Don't invite her and risk your FI family going nuts over it; Invite her and hope there is enough people in the crowd to drown out her nonsense.  Are you inviting all singles with their significant others?  Maybe you can say it's budget related and no girlfriends/boyfriends are invited.

    What does your fiance think? Maybe he can speak to his brother about the girlfriend?
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  • cara91997cara91997 member
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    In all honesty you probably won't have to interact with her all that much. It's your wedding day so you will be mingling with everyone. If she says something out of line just laugh and walk away. She will only make herself look like an idiot. If you don't invite her, it may cause a rift.
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