My brother and soon to be sister in law are getting married in July. I am 16 days older than my brother (I am adopted) and therefore my sister in law wants me to dance in the hog trough. I tried to convince them that since I am also engaged that its really not necessary for me to dance in the trough. That didn't work... I am perhaps the clumsiest person ever and i dread dancing in front of everyone! Did anyone else have to dance in the trough? How bad was it?