Yes I said it. I am experiencing a Bridesmaidzilla and have no idea what to do... I am on the last straw.. I asked her to rsvp to the bachelorette party, and she told me she didnt want to rsvp yet cause she didnt know if she was going to be able to go and didnt want me to be stuck with an extra ticket. The tickets are already bought either way I will have her ticket. She then continued to tell me how her schedule is not 9-5/ m-f and she only works part time and doesnt live by me ( mind you i have a BM who lives in MN). But this is not the first time she has complained about something wedding related. She has complained about the dresses, about it being alfred angelo and not david's bridal, about have to spend the money, about having to take time off of work to come down ( she lives in Melbourne) and try on dresses. My MOH lives one exit down from me, so I call her for most of the bridal duties as that what her job is.. So I asked the BMZilla if she want to back out of her duties, I mean yea I would be sad, But I dont want to ruin a friendship over this but at what point to I say STFU and Do what I say or else. Also on a side note, BMZilla and MOH are sisters so I can ask MOH to get involved but I would rather not. Only cause thier relationship is not great and I dont want to involve the sisters card... Help? Do I give her another chance or tell her to back down? Also my FI told me to tell her about not coming to the Bachelorette party, was that she can come to the next one..thanks babe..