We're planning to have our wedding this summer, 2011. This is his second wedding and my first. We have a budget we have to go by. I was wanting a small family/close friends wedding. Very intimate. For some reason, he thinks he has to invite all the guys he works with, which is like 15. I do not want to invite the majority of these people, because everytime they all get together it seems like there's a big drunken brawl! My family is not a drinking type family, and this would be very uncomfortable for me! How do I get around thiis without just going to the J.P.?! I am VERY stressed about this!