If your son and DIL were flying in next week for Thanksgiving and would be in town from Tues through Friday,and if you knew that your other son and DIL would be attending Thanksgiving dinner, with your DIL's family who live ten minutes from you making it quite possible for everyone to be together from 6 PM on Thanksgiving on,and if you knew that your children would be happy to get together Tuesday for dinner or Friday anytime but wanted to have time to get together just the sons and their wives, would your reaction be:A) Great! It's wonderful that my children and their spouses aren't just family - they're friends.B) Make sure that you at least scheduled a family dinner or lunch so that all children and spouses were around the table for a meal at least once during the visit.C) Roll with any of it and let the kids plan all of the weekD) Go BSC and throw a screaming fit on the telephone. Then when you're done, smack the phone on the counter and push a few buttons for emphasis to end the phone call.If you answered D, you have MIL's reaction to her finding out that BIL and SIL will be hanging out with DH and me next Wednesday night.Sigh. This is the unfortunate latest in the saga and because DH is still out, I need to vent.