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Update on MOH from Hell

I thought I would give everyone an update, even though my original post from a few days ago disappeared. For those that don't remember/didn't see the OP, I had a friend who started stalking me over wedding plans to the point that I was actually scared.

I re-read everyones comments and thought about my plan of action for a day, but finally decided to e-mail MOH the links to her posts. In the body of the e-mail, I wrote, "I found these posts on TheKnot.com, and I believe now would be a good a time as any to let you know that your behavior has been inappropriate and has not gone unnoticed. I no longer feel safe around you, and for this reason, I feel that I must end our friendship. I ask that you stop attempting contact with me, as doing so will result in a restraining order."

I have blocked her number, changed my e-mail address, and asked that any of my friends or family members who still keep in contact with her (not very many anymore) do not share any of my personal information with her. That part was definitely one of the most embarrassing moments of my life.

I'm surprised, but I do miss her friendship and wish things did not have to be this way. Thank you again for all of your advice and support!

Re: Update on MOH from Hell

  • Wow!  Good for you.  I hope the rest of your planning goes by stress free.  What a crazy situation that was. 
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  • aragx6aragx6 member
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    Did you see her post from Friday afternoon?
    Lizzie
  • MyUserName1MyUserName1 member
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    Good for you!  She came back by the way, yelled at us all for ruining your friendship and made bigoted comments towards one of our male posters.  She got banned from the knot.
  • Is there a link to this drama?  I'd love to read it.
  • Glad everything has worked out for you.  Here is your original post for those interested:

    Clicky
  • aragx6aragx6 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_update-on-moh-from-hell?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:e8de9c49-7b01-4027-aafd-6fc871ed8c3fPost:e75cd542-dfe7-47c0-825d-b140b56c0300">Re: Update on MOH from Hell</a>:
    [QUOTE]Good for you!  She came back by the way, yelled at us all for ruining your friendship and made bigoted comments towards one of our male posters.  She got banned from the knot.
    Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

    Oooooh I missed that!
    Lizzie
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_update-on-moh-from-hell?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:e8de9c49-7b01-4027-aafd-6fc871ed8c3fPost:00ce8b7c-b5b8-46e8-a564-48a40298cde4">Re: Update on MOH from Hell</a>:
    [QUOTE]I'm still not entirely sure I buy this whole story. Suspicious, party of me.
    Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]

    If she's the same person, than she's pretty bipolar.  The two people have very different posting styles so it's either a very elaborate con or a true story.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_update-on-moh-from-hell?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:e8de9c49-7b01-4027-aafd-6fc871ed8c3fPost:e75cd542-dfe7-47c0-825d-b140b56c0300">Re: Update on MOH from Hell</a>:
    [QUOTE]Good for you!  She came back by the way, yelled at us all for ruining your friendship and made bigoted comments towards one of our male posters.  She got banned from the knot.
    Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

    Cannot believe I missed this fun. When you're banned, it deletes all of your posts, right?

    OP, nice work.  Hopefully she doesnt start stalking you.

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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_update-on-moh-from-hell?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:e8de9c49-7b01-4027-aafd-6fc871ed8c3fPost:2dcef651-c3a6-4831-88c3-0956922a163c">Re: Update on MOH from Hell</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Update on MOH from Hell : Cannot believe I missed this fun. When you're banned, it deletes all of your posts, right? OP, nice work.  Hopefully she doesnt start stalking you.
    Posted by button6004[/QUOTE]

    Yeah, but you can still follow what happened thanks to quoting- i'll try to dredge up a link.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_update-on-moh-from-hell?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:e8de9c49-7b01-4027-aafd-6fc871ed8c3fPost:b36825db-eb6f-49ff-b01c-7986eeebfeaf">Re: Update on MOH from Hell</a>:
    [QUOTE]Did you see her post from Friday afternoon?
    Posted by aragx6[/QUOTE]

    <div>I did not. I actually looked through every page since my post the other day just to see if she was still posting. If she had had some recent activity, I wasn't planning on posting. I didn't see anything from her.</div>
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_update-on-moh-from-hell?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:e8de9c49-7b01-4027-aafd-6fc871ed8c3fPost:e75cd542-dfe7-47c0-825d-b140b56c0300">Re: Update on MOH from Hell</a>:
    [QUOTE]Good for you!  She came back by the way, yelled at us all for ruining your friendship and made bigoted comments towards one of our male posters.  She got banned from the knot.
    Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

    <div>Ugh. That's terrible. I've never heard of her saying anything just to offend anyone before (at least not since elementary school). She's just gone completely off the deep end.</div>
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_update-on-moh-from-hell?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:e8de9c49-7b01-4027-aafd-6fc871ed8c3fPost:c68e699c-f156-4b55-a08a-11f9f7c078cd">Re: Update on MOH from Hell</a>:
    [QUOTE]Glad everything has worked out for you.  Here is your original post for those interested: Clicky
    Posted by OliveOilsMom[/QUOTE]

    <div>Thanks! I thought it was gone, and there were still some comments I hadn't read!</div>
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_update-on-moh-from-hell?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:e8de9c49-7b01-4027-aafd-6fc871ed8c3fPost:0a435222-96a3-43a7-b611-06098a060b68">Re: Update on MOH from Hell</a>:
    [QUOTE]I'm going for elaborate con, MUN1. It's not like we haven't seen them around here before. I'm sure we'll get a thread in a week from the 'crazy MOH' about how her friend got a restraining order against her and it's all our fault. I only saw part of Friday's post, so maybe it was already in there.
    Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]

    I don't know who to believe. So I'm sorta with you cfas. And yeah, the Friday thread mentioned how the MOH was SO MAD at us for telling her friend to cut ties and blah blah blah. Convenient? Or truly crazy?
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    [QUOTE]Good for you!  She came back by the way, yelled at us all for ruining your friendship and made bigoted comments towards one of our male posters.  She got banned from the knot.
    Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

    I only got to read part of this thread, I think it disappeared before I could finish all of it but what I read was very entertaining.

    OP, I hope you don't have to go so far as to get a restraining order and that she gets the hint.  Good luck and I hope the rest of your engagement and wedding planning have a lot less drama.

    I guess we have to stop telling brides that no one will care about their wedding as much as they do because apparently this girls' MOH really, really did. 
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Update on MOH from Hell : I only got to read part of this thread, I think it disappeared before I could finish all of it but what I read was very entertaining. OP, I hope you don't have to go so far as to get a restraining order and that she gets the hint.  Good luck and I hope the rest of your engagement and wedding planning have a lot less drama. I guess we have to stop telling brides that no one will care about their wedding as much as they do because apparently this girls' MOH really, really did. 
    Posted by calixtine[/QUOTE]

    <div>Yeah, I've seen a few posts on here with brides frustrated about unenthusiastic MOHs and BMs. I know someone they might like to meet.</div>
  • MyUserName1MyUserName1 member
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    FOUND IT!

    http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_soo-thanks

    And, Meg, you missed it because TK ate all of the threads involved.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_update-on-moh-from-hell?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:e8de9c49-7b01-4027-aafd-6fc871ed8c3fPost:5d39ff49-9cd0-4751-8756-eb8ad41a570b">Re: Update on MOH from Hell</a>:
    [QUOTE]I'm going with real, because it's more fun that way.
    Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]

    Me too.  Also Risa seems way too level headed to be fake.  If it's a long con, Risa's a AE for a reg who knows just how to play us.
  • Wow.. that is a new level of crazy IMO. Glad you're getting it all sorted out and hopefully behind you OP.
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_update-on-moh-from-hell?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:e8de9c49-7b01-4027-aafd-6fc871ed8c3fPost:586984ab-e4d7-4532-b8d4-cc9f183329d7">Re: Update on MOH from Hell</a>:
    [QUOTE]FOUND IT! <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_soo-thanks">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_soo-thanks</a> And, Meg, you missed it because TK ate all of the threads involved.
    Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

    Thank you for that.  What a wackadoo.

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  • LeguLegu member
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    I'd just like to add my two cents worth. Firstly, poor GNA in the link... I missed all that before but he seems cool. To the OP. If you are for real, I feel so bad for you, but believe you have made the right desicion, as much as it may suck right now. If you are a troll... At this point all I can really say is congrats, really. No one is 100 percent sure either way, an it's been a damn good read.
    So, maybe things don't always go as planned... Maybe that's okay. I may be alone for now, but my baby boy is on his way, and I wouldn't change a thing.
  • I realized that Friday was the day of the "Black Tie Optional" post from Buckley in regards to her aunt and her issue with not wearing bras. I have a vague memory of seeing the post from the OP's friend, but that's it. Friday was all kinds of interesting.

    I'm still on the fence with this whole thing myself. It sounds like something straight out of a talk show.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_update-on-moh-from-hell?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:e8de9c49-7b01-4027-aafd-6fc871ed8c3fPost:586984ab-e4d7-4532-b8d4-cc9f183329d7">Re: Update on MOH from Hell</a>:
    [QUOTE]FOUND IT! <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_soo-thanks">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_soo-thanks</a> And, Meg, you missed it because TK ate all of the threads involved.
    Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

    <div>Wow. Thanks for finding that. I think her comments to Groom were just for drama. She knows thats a sensitive subject for me and if I read it I would be hurt.</div><div>
    </div><div>The stabbing thing is really, really scary.</div>
  • aragx6aragx6 member
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    I love that Mica JICed her bullshitt before banning her :P

    What a disaster of a thread that became after I left for the day. I still think if she were a real troll she would have posted that two or three hours earlier or later -- it was dead around here right about 5 central.
    Lizzie
  • Oh, for all you recordkeepers here...Thank you SO much for having the links to all that.  I missed most of it, and was laughing out loud almost the entire time I read it.  And yes, I read all of it.

    I do feel bad for GNA though.  I like boys, so I vote he gets to stay on the island!
  • This is so crazy. That chick has some major issues.

    OP, I'm glad to hear that you took action of the matter. I'd still get that restraining order...She's crazy!
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  • bongebonge member
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    I said it in my previous post but i too believe this is real as i have been through it here on tk. Anyway op just be careful, if she has gone off the deep end like my ex MOH did then you will have to watch your back
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_update-on-moh-from-hell?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:e8de9c49-7b01-4027-aafd-6fc871ed8c3fPost:6b914782-710e-45dd-b397-8caf272ed321">Re: Update on MOH from Hell</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Update on MOH from Hell : Now I'm intrigued.
    Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]

    <div>YGPM, not something i want to broadcast lol</div>
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  • I found someone I know on here who also bashed me when I was a BM for her wedding 2 years ago. Haha watch what you say- I WILL find it! ;)

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