I am trying to decide who to have in my wedding party. My fiancee has a limited number of grooms men, and I've got too many to choose from in bridesmaids. I've got three bridesmaids already, but my mother and sister want to be a part of the wedding. I would like to honor them, but them not be in the actual wedding ceremony. is there a way to do this where they will feel good about their part in the wedding and not have feelings hurt?