I think from now on, best to not engage with his wife at all, and if you would like him to come, just send an invitation like you would anyone else. You can't control how he behaves, just hopefully minimize how often you're impacted by it.
Atomic - Love that!
Right now, I'm sitting in my own private and quiet office. Yesterday, there was a blow-up between me and sniffling co-worker. He called me unprofessional after he just got off the phone stating how his throat hurt, etc. and decided to walk over to my side of the office and just stare at me. I told him to go away and get back on his side of the office. Apparently that made my mean, nasty, and unprofessional. It was almost noon and he had only been in the office for 20 minutes, but I was the unprofessional one - ok buddy! More words were exchanged. All the while, a partner was in the next office over who heard everything. He even asked the person he was with "if we are always like this", her response was no, this is a first, but she has been under a lot of stress dealing with him. So at the end of the day, big boss tells me to take the office of the attorney who just left. Oh, its so nice and quiet here! No sniffling to listen to all day either! AND he's pissed that I got the office! I can LOL at this for DAYS! The fact he called me unprofessional after he has been caught sleeping in both his desk chair (repeatedly) AND the bathroom, he comes and go as he pleases, etc., was just so rich!
Due to my shitty day yesterday, H and I just relaxed and went up to bed early. No cookies were made, we will try again tonight for that! I would also like to hit up a yoga class tonight as it's my last opportunity to attend one until next week. We will see if we can fit it all in!
One more day and than the long weekend!