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What to do when everyone hates you because yo…
Knottie1448238834
03/7/16 12:30AM

We are planning a very small no-frills wedding for our family and close childhood friends. We did this for a lot of reasons... one of which,… Read more

03/7/16 12:30AM
Walking Together
Knottie62971762
03/10/16 1:14AM

I would like my partner and I to walk down the aisle together, instead of my father walking me down. However, I would still like to to honor… Read more

03/10/16 1:14AM
Flowers for the hair
CharmedPam
03/8/16 7:35PM

When I was getting quotes from florists, a lot of them were asking me if I'd need small flowers for my hair.  I never even thought about i… Read more

03/8/16 7:35PM
Cupcakes!
ahoywedding
03/9/16 2:43PM

Has anyone done strictly cupcakes for dessert? How well did that go over with guests? What might be a good estimate for how many might be ne… Read more

03/9/16 2:43PM
Childhood friend FUMING about not being a bri…
Knottie1448744891
03/4/16 1:59PM

Hello, sorry for the essay, it's a bit complicated.  This friend was my best friend in high school ages 11-16, we did everything together … Read more

03/4/16 1:59PM
Mom and purple hair
Jinx1990
02/27/16 11:36PM

So let me start by saying that my mother and I have clashed from day one with wedding planning.... From my bridesmaids, the groomsmen, the f… Read more

02/27/16 11:36PM

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Waterworks
vikinganna87
05/26/16 1:05PM

This morning I saw a teenage a capella group sing the Gary Jules version of Mad World.  It was so beautiful and powerful that I got teary-e… Read more

05/26/16 1:05PM
Tuesday :)
Heffalump
05/24/16 1:37PM

Morning!  What's up? Tonight is Wooz's second-to-last art class for this session.  I think after we drop her off, I'll take DS to the par… Read more

05/24/16 1:37PM
I'm bored, bring your randoms
Heffalump
05/26/16 7:12PM

It is dead here.  Just dead.  Not a peep from sales.  My designer is out, which means anything she was working on for me is on hold.  Mo… Read more

05/26/16 7:12PM
NWR: Pregnancy Questions
scrunchythief
05/25/16 4:35PM

Thought this would be good for a laugh:) Read more

05/25/16 4:35PM
FMIL and family attire worries....
Knottie1447802656
05/25/16 12:26AM

I am having a formal outdoor ceremony and reception in late October. My BM are wearing floor length lace dresses and I've asked my mother an… Read more

05/25/16 12:26AM
Wednesday!
mrs.conn23
05/25/16 11:56AM

How's it hanging?! Three things: 1.  DH went to the hospital to visit our friend's daughter.  We're lucky to have a top-rated children's… Read more

05/25/16 11:56AM
"Plan to stand, or get wet."
AtomicBlonde
05/25/16 11:09AM

....I feel like most of this is terrible, horrible, no-good, very bad advice.  I would feel zero "camaraderie amongst" the other guests wh… Read more

05/25/16 11:09AM
Brothers in WP Dilemma
CaitFins
05/25/16 2:37AM

So, I wanted to throw my FI and I's dilemma to you guys, which I have been going over for months upon months upon months, so maybe you can g… Read more

05/25/16 2:37AM
FMIL getting too involved
Knottie1463996468
05/26/16 1:16PM

My FMIL is really excited about the wedding, which I think is amazing! But I'm struggling because she gets too involved with everything in m… Read more

05/26/16 1:16PM
I loathe this lady.
mrs.conn23
05/26/16 3:40PM

DEAR ABBY: We visit my in-laws two or three times a year. During our most recent visit, my kids (ages 12 and 14) were roughhousing with the… Read more

05/26/16 3:40PM
On Fleek
6fsn
05/27/16 12:54PM

I'm trying to decide how far from reality DH and I are Read more

05/27/16 12:54PM
MOH/FSIL Issues
Knottie1445002538
05/26/16 6:39PM

Apologies in advance for a rant. My fiance and I were engaged in October after 7 months of living together, and 1.5 years of being together… Read more

05/26/16 6:39PM
Sigh.
redoryx
05/25/16 10:48PM

Invitation came for family wedding. There's an over 3 hour gap.  We (by that, I mean and my 2+ year boyfriend that I live with who was inv… Read more

05/25/16 10:48PM
**Varuna**
mrs.conn23
05/24/16 3:09PM

I'm at the end of season 4 of the West Wing.   I see why In The Shadow of Two Gunmen was your favorite.  Great TV.  How the FUCK did th… Read more

05/24/16 3:09PM
Table Numbers w/ Somewhat Separated Spaces
rebecca+m
05/26/16 5:31PM

I'm pretty sure the answer here is already clear, but: Our reception space is partly outdoors, partly in, and the indoors space is in two ro… Read more

05/26/16 5:31PM
Wedding invitations to wedding party
ksulaski
05/24/16 9:13PM

Hello all! Question for all you knotties who I know will help me with my dilemma! We are sending our invitations out in about 3 weeks for ou… Read more

05/24/16 9:13PM
What day is it?
kimmiinthemitten
05/26/16 11:38AM

Cheers from the airport!  Headed to see my little nugget (niece) for her first birthday).  Super excited for a weekend on the beach. Hope… Read more

05/26/16 11:38AM
Wrong name on wedding correspondence--ok to s…
Aray82
05/29/16 7:15PM

Hello Knotties! I have a question about whether it's acceptable to say something in this situation, and if so, how: My BIL is getting marri… Read more

05/29/16 7:15PM
Neighboring property hosting concert during m…
emilyrenee90
05/28/16 12:59AM

I'm two months out from my wedding and I just got an email from the Wedding Coordinator at my venue yesterday stating that the neighboring p… Read more

05/28/16 12:59AM
I wish people would stop policing what's norm…
mrs.conn23
05/26/16 1:32PM

Dear Prudence, I was adopted as a baby and was never told anything about my birth parents, except that they were unmarried and couldn’t ta… Read more

05/26/16 1:32PM
Same dress disaster?!
amylmcnair
05/28/16 2:17AM

I was sitting with my friend tonight and we are attending each other's weddings this year. Hers is July 31 and mine is September 18. We were… Read more

05/28/16 2:17AM
Need makeup advice!
OurWildKingdom
05/26/16 9:11PM

I don't remember the last time I wore makeup, and I have no idea what looks good on me anymore. I could also use some (cruelty-free) brand r… Read more

05/26/16 9:11PM
FMIL Engagement/Wedding Shower
emilyrenee90
05/29/16 9:57PM

So my FMIL wanted to throw us an engagement party/wedding shower open house the first weekend in June for our August wedding. She did the sa… Read more

05/29/16 9:57PM
Entrance to Reception
katsandtatts
05/25/16 7:48PM

We are having an evening ceremony and reception and we are not sure about how our timeline and ideas will work. We will have a one hour coc… Read more

05/25/16 7:48PM
Which is the most preferable website RSVP sys…
CaitFins
05/25/16 1:05AM

Hello, Knotties! What do you think is the best RSVP system for guests to use on wedding websites? For some reason, despite all the weddings… Read more

05/25/16 1:05AM
Graphic Designer Woes
diygaltoronto
05/25/16 4:43AM

looking for a quick little vent here... Hired a friend to design our wedding invites, girl has been flaky and made the process take so much… Read more

05/25/16 4:43AM
IT'S NATIONAL WINE DAY?!?1
VarunaTT
05/25/16 8:32PM
05/25/16 8:32PM
Favorite Candies
tigerlily6
05/29/16 11:00PM

Trying to plan out a good assortment of different candies to make available for guests at the candy bar we are having as a favor. There will… Read more

05/29/16 11:00PM
FRIDAY!
mrs.conn23
05/27/16 12:19PM

I don't get a long weekend, womp, womp! I have to work tomorrow.  But SIL/BIL/nephew are coming to stay.  The kiddo flies out to stay wit… Read more

05/27/16 12:19PM
Just a bit of a bummer.
gaiadaughter
05/29/16 3:44AM

Can I just pout here for a minute?  I'm getting married in November and my youngest brother was supposed to be a "brides-man" and spend th… Read more

05/29/16 3:44AM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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