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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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Monday?
mrsconn23
08/14/17 1:56PM

How was the weekend? Friday night, I had big plans to go shopping...But I was just cooked when I got off work.  So I put it off.  Saturd… Read more

08/14/17 1:56PM
How to handle a baby at DW?
filaw
08/15/17 12:46PM

I'm a first time mom with what will be a 6 month old. My sister is having a DW. Both my husband and I are in the wedding party. I'm fairly s… Read more

08/15/17 12:46PM
First Look and FMIL
knottie1027
08/14/17 5:22AM

I absolutely love the idea of a first look photo-shoot. It's intimate and compliments the low-key personality of FI and I. I have mentioned … Read more

08/14/17 5:22AM
Appetizer Only Reception
kscott2018
08/13/17 6:43PM

My fiance and I ended up picking a venue that does not allow any outside food (we must order all food from them, except the cake). The dinne… Read more

08/13/17 6:43PM
Outdoor wedding...15 degrees
May14TXbride
08/11/17 11:39PM

Normally just a lurker here, but saw something on Facebook that I just had to share. An article was posted about outdoor wedding tips. And o… Read more

08/11/17 11:39PM
Hurt by BF comments
nassyv12
08/12/17 3:51PM

Okay so i'm going to preface this with the fact that both my partner and I are from unconventional religions. He's Norse pagan and I'm Helle… Read more

08/12/17 3:51PM
Saying she's your girlfriend =/= you must ans…
mrsconn23
08/17/17 1:50PM

Dear Prudence, I am the oldest of several cousins, most of whom are toddler-to-elementary-school age. (I’m in college.) My girlfriend a… Read more

08/17/17 1:50PM
Remember, the messenger always gets shot. Tea…
mrsconn23
08/17/17 1:41PM

Dear Prudence, A few years ago my cousin married a guy who has always squicked me out, mainly because of the hateful and homophobic thing… Read more

08/17/17 1:41PM
Private Ceremony / Open Reception
Knottie4ae33bc78cdebc7b
08/17/17 7:45PM

Hello All,  My fiancé and I are considering a courthouse or a private ceremony, a quick vow exchange and rings then snap a few photos. Th… Read more

08/17/17 7:45PM
Jack and Jill Party
Australian_girl_in_Paris
08/11/17 12:50PM

So I just watched this - https://youtu.be/KJ9uLFBIBQE Its a You Tube channel that I occasionally watch they have nice DIY's but they were … Read more

08/11/17 12:50PM
Home Reception after Destination Wedding
knottiea6db481f2b6bc6a3
08/15/17 5:00PM

Hello Everyone, I'm at a loss for what to do with a home reception. I am getting married in California with 25 guests at a gorgeous remote I… Read more

08/15/17 5:00PM
Need help with bridesmaid dress colors AND my…
no_one_you_know
08/17/17 4:14PM

Hello ladies, I need some help with a couple things... 1. My wedding dress is silk crepe, form fitting, and not at all forgiving, even thou… Read more

08/17/17 4:14PM
Oy. Your sister is a dick.
mrsconn23
08/17/17 1:48PM

Dear Prudence, I got engaged two weeks ago and my parents are throwing my fiancé and me an engagement party to celebrate. My little sist… Read more

08/17/17 1:48PM
If she has a kid, what is it to you?
mrsconn23
08/17/17 1:46PM

Dear Prudence, My best friend, “Jen,” and I are in our mid-30s; we met as college roommates and have been a huge part of each other… Read more

08/17/17 1:46PM
No matter what grasp you have on yourself, pe…
mrsconn23
08/17/17 1:52PM

Dear Prudence, I have always been an emotionally intelligent person, which I find fulfilling and useful in my personal life. It can also … Read more

08/17/17 1:52PM
Ceremony and Reception Seating
MRDCle
08/12/17 1:43AM

We will be having our ceremony in the same room as our reception. In order to make a smoother transition between ceremony/cocktail hour/rece… Read more

08/12/17 1:43AM
Building Aesthetic
Knottie1473798315
08/18/17 12:57AM

I'm getting married on September 22 and my venue coordinator called me today to say that the building that they're leasing the space from is… Read more

08/18/17 12:57AM
HELP! I can't decide between two dresses!
knottieaa1529cb90ce78c9
08/16/17 4:56PM

I have found two dresses that I love but am having trouble deciding between the two. They have similar characteristics but one has a more si… Read more

08/16/17 4:56PM
This letter is equal parts sad and frustratin…
mrsconn23
08/17/17 1:43PM

Dear Prudence, I briefly dated a guy who I’m now just friends with. If he was on board with the idea, I’d still be up for exploring o… Read more

08/17/17 1:43PM
Special Extras for Guests
Knottie616b760927029949
08/12/17 6:09PM

Hey guys, I'm looking for some reception ideas.  We're having the ceremony at a Catholic Church, with a reception immediately following at … Read more

08/12/17 6:09PM
Place cards/Meal choices
Knottiea3cfa9579f72b16c
08/11/17 8:43PM

My venue is only requiring total meal count per table, not by guest, but I was hoping to be more specific and indicate meal choices on the p… Read more

08/11/17 8:43PM
Gift for shower
knottied8057fde89686788
08/13/17 10:30PM

I am attending a friend's shower who is coming in from out of state to attend her shower. The couple have made a small registry but have mad… Read more

08/13/17 10:30PM
What to wear to a couples' BBQ bridal shower
GCTA9302017
08/17/17 1:50PM

Hi all! I know I am overthinking, but I'm looking for some attire advice. My FMIL/FSIL are throwing a couples' BBQ bridal shower and I have… Read more

08/17/17 1:50PM
BEER & WINE help me choose!!! :)
feinwedding2017
08/16/17 2:23PM

Hi everyone, im getting married this September 23rd, on Whidbey Island (Seattle area). My fiancé and I are trying to pick out beer and win… Read more

08/16/17 2:23PM
Wedding Program Question...
Knottie9a01ad3e0fe72f86
08/13/17 5:38PM

My father suddenly passed away in May, and I am getting married on October 1st.  How do I, or should I, incorporate his name onto my weddin… Read more

08/13/17 5:38PM
Father/Daughter Dance - Father Deceased
Knottie093dffe358212eee
08/17/17 1:59AM

I am having my godfather/cousin walk me down the aisle. I lost my mother when i was 5 and my father only 3 years ago. I still want to do a f… Read more

08/17/17 1:59AM
Badgley Mischka Ivory Pumps $265
kaysnyder1990
08/13/17 4:51PM

I am selling my Badgley Mischka wedding pumps. They have NOT been worn. I put them on in the house a few times to try and walk in them but c… Read more

08/13/17 4:51PM
Hashtag Help - Nuttall
Knottie1471890739
08/14/17 4:02AM

Hi ladies! I've been throwing around ideas with my bridesmaids but nothing has stuck.  Everything sounds so dirty, but I guess it comes wi… Read more

08/14/17 4:02AM
Tipping Wedding Planner/Designer
indigo-2
08/15/17 12:51AM

Hi everyone, So I've been working with a wedding planner/designer (who owns her own company) as my main contact this entire year of my eng… Read more

08/15/17 12:51AM
Wedding Meal - HELP
knottie0dad8a5b7e5c30e3
08/12/17 7:13PM

Hi all, I am getting married next August at Caesars Palace (travelling over from the UK) and we are looking for somewhere for a meal afterw… Read more

08/12/17 7:13PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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