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What to do when everyone hates you because yo…
Knottie1448238834
03/7/16 12:30AM

We are planning a very small no-frills wedding for our family and close childhood friends. We did this for a lot of reasons... one of which,… Read more

03/7/16 12:30AM
Walking Together
Knottie62971762
03/10/16 1:14AM

I would like my partner and I to walk down the aisle together, instead of my father walking me down. However, I would still like to to honor… Read more

03/10/16 1:14AM
Flowers for the hair
CharmedPam
03/8/16 7:35PM

When I was getting quotes from florists, a lot of them were asking me if I'd need small flowers for my hair.  I never even thought about i… Read more

03/8/16 7:35PM
Cupcakes!
ahoywedding
03/9/16 2:43PM

Has anyone done strictly cupcakes for dessert? How well did that go over with guests? What might be a good estimate for how many might be ne… Read more

03/9/16 2:43PM
Childhood friend FUMING about not being a bri…
Knottie1448744891
03/4/16 1:59PM

Hello, sorry for the essay, it's a bit complicated.  This friend was my best friend in high school ages 11-16, we did everything together … Read more

03/4/16 1:59PM
Mom and purple hair
Jinx1990
02/27/16 11:36PM

So let me start by saying that my mother and I have clashed from day one with wedding planning.... From my bridesmaids, the groomsmen, the f… Read more

02/27/16 11:36PM

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Including Other Close Friends
katsandtatts
05/24/16 4:48AM

So my fiance has a group of guy friends that he has been close with since high school and before. He automatically knew who he wanted to hav… Read more

05/24/16 4:48AM
Teenage curfew
scribe95
05/24/16 8:05PM

So a parenting question - what is a reasonable curfew for a 16-year-old during the summer? During the school year the curfew is 9 on school… Read more

05/24/16 8:05PM
Prom season - did you go to yours?
OurWildKingdom
05/23/16 9:49PM

My brother and one of the substitute teachers fixed me up with the teacher's younger son, who had just finished his freshman year of college… Read more

05/23/16 9:49PM
Tuesday :)
Heffalump
05/24/16 1:37PM

Morning!  What's up? Tonight is Wooz's second-to-last art class for this session.  I think after we drop her off, I'll take DS to the par… Read more

05/24/16 1:37PM
Monday
6fsn
05/23/16 12:54PM

How was the weekend? FIL took the kids Saturday night.  DH and I wandered the mall, bought some books, ate undgodly amounts of meat at one … Read more

05/23/16 12:54PM
Weekly Accountability: 5/23-5/27
futuremrshistorian
05/23/16 2:15PM

I'll get us going this week! Monday, May 23 Breakfast:  Oatmeal with honey, a mini-frittata, matcha green tea, chocolate soy milk, water,… Read more

05/23/16 2:15PM
Baby Talk
WineAndLipgloss
05/20/16 10:59PM

Since getting engaged, the people in our lives won't stop asking about when we're going to have a baby. Normally, when it comes from close f… Read more

05/20/16 10:59PM
NWR: Pregnancy Questions
scrunchythief
05/25/16 4:35PM

Thought this would be good for a laugh:) Read more

05/25/16 4:35PM
"Plan to stand, or get wet."
AtomicBlonde
05/25/16 11:09AM

....I feel like most of this is terrible, horrible, no-good, very bad advice.  I would feel zero "camaraderie amongst" the other guests wh… Read more

05/25/16 11:09AM
Wednesday!
mrs.conn23
05/25/16 11:56AM

How's it hanging?! Three things: 1.  DH went to the hospital to visit our friend's daughter.  We're lucky to have a top-rated children's… Read more

05/25/16 11:56AM
Cure for the blahs?
holyguacamole79
05/23/16 1:15AM

I've been feeling blah lately.  I'm on antidepressants, but I don't think it's anything to do with that.  I think I'm still a bit bummed a… Read more

05/23/16 1:15AM
Brothers in WP Dilemma
CaitFins
05/25/16 2:37AM

So, I wanted to throw my FI and I's dilemma to you guys, which I have been going over for months upon months upon months, so maybe you can g… Read more

05/25/16 2:37AM
Friday! FINALLY!
mrs.conn23
05/20/16 12:57PM

DH has to work tonight. BOOO! No driveway sealing today because it's going to rain. Because it's never going to stop raining.    Wood pa… Read more

05/20/16 12:57PM
FMIL and family attire worries....
Knottie1447802656
05/25/16 12:26AM

I am having a formal outdoor ceremony and reception in late October. My BM are wearing floor length lace dresses and I've asked my mother an… Read more

05/25/16 12:26AM
Wedding invitations to wedding party
ksulaski
05/24/16 9:13PM

Hello all! Question for all you knotties who I know will help me with my dilemma! We are sending our invitations out in about 3 weeks for ou… Read more

05/24/16 9:13PM
What day is it?
kimmiinthemitten
05/26/16 11:38AM

Cheers from the airport!  Headed to see my little nugget (niece) for her first birthday).  Super excited for a weekend on the beach. Hope… Read more

05/26/16 11:38AM
FMIL getting too involved
Knottie1463996468
05/26/16 1:16PM

My FMIL is really excited about the wedding, which I think is amazing! But I'm struggling because she gets too involved with everything in m… Read more

05/26/16 1:16PM
Waterworks
vikinganna87
05/26/16 1:05PM

This morning I saw a teenage a capella group sing the Gary Jules version of Mad World.  It was so beautiful and powerful that I got teary-e… Read more

05/26/16 1:05PM
Help I suck at plants!
scribe95
05/23/16 11:10AM

We are working on our front flower beds and we had two things die (or never take hold) that we need to replace. I want something that gives … Read more

05/23/16 11:10AM
I loathe this lady.
mrs.conn23
05/26/16 3:40PM

DEAR ABBY: We visit my in-laws two or three times a year. During our most recent visit, my kids (ages 12 and 14) were roughhousing with the… Read more

05/26/16 3:40PM
Wrong to select different BM dresses?
Knottie54371746
05/20/16 4:28AM

I was MOH in a wedding a few years ago where the bride selected (and paid for) a different dress for each BM -- different styles and pattern… Read more

05/20/16 4:28AM
**Varuna**
mrs.conn23
05/24/16 3:09PM

I'm at the end of season 4 of the West Wing.   I see why In The Shadow of Two Gunmen was your favorite.  Great TV.  How the FUCK did th… Read more

05/24/16 3:09PM
Wedding Do-Over
SP29
05/22/16 12:42PM

You guys, I think I need a wedding do-over, because I didn't know this was an option... http://www.cbc.ca/1.3587701 A completely legitima… Read more

05/22/16 12:42PM
Tip with Bottle of Wine?
ezizabef
05/20/16 11:55PM

I've been planning on giving a bottle of wine to each of the vendors (photographer, makeup, hair, dj) except the bartenders (cash tip) and I… Read more

05/20/16 11:55PM
Random Thoughts That Don't Deserve Their Own …
ShesSoCold
05/26/16 6:54PM

I was active on a board years ago that had one of these and it was great. The way my hair is falling, I think my ponytail is too high and … Read more

05/26/16 6:54PM
Graphic Designer Woes
diygaltoronto
05/25/16 4:43AM

looking for a quick little vent here... Hired a friend to design our wedding invites, girl has been flaky and made the process take so much… Read more

05/25/16 4:43AM
Which Band?!
Knottie1447911466
05/23/16 7:03PM

I have been to many jewelry stores and can't seem to decide on a wedding band! Which one do you like the best/think matches the best? First … Read more

05/23/16 7:03PM
IT'S NATIONAL WINE DAY?!?1
VarunaTT
05/25/16 8:32PM
05/25/16 8:32PM
NWR: Asking for a raise? or not?
dyerwise
05/20/16 4:41PM

So, I wanted to get an opinion on asking for a raise or if I should do something different? or get any feedback or tips... I've been with m… Read more

05/20/16 4:41PM
Anyone else watching the Bachelorette?!
holyguacamole79
05/24/16 1:46AM

Thoughts? I'm excited bc Luke is from a town just north of my parents,  so I'm cheering for him so far.  Read more

05/24/16 1:46AM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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