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What to do when everyone hates you because yo…
Knottie1448238834
03/7/16 12:30AM

We are planning a very small no-frills wedding for our family and close childhood friends. We did this for a lot of reasons... one of which,… Read more

03/7/16 12:30AM
Walking Together
Knottie62971762
03/10/16 1:14AM

I would like my partner and I to walk down the aisle together, instead of my father walking me down. However, I would still like to to honor… Read more

03/10/16 1:14AM
Flowers for the hair
CharmedPam
03/8/16 7:35PM

When I was getting quotes from florists, a lot of them were asking me if I'd need small flowers for my hair.  I never even thought about i… Read more

03/8/16 7:35PM
Cupcakes!
ahoywedding
03/9/16 2:43PM

Has anyone done strictly cupcakes for dessert? How well did that go over with guests? What might be a good estimate for how many might be ne… Read more

03/9/16 2:43PM
Childhood friend FUMING about not being a bri…
Knottie1448744891
03/4/16 1:59PM

Hello, sorry for the essay, it's a bit complicated.  This friend was my best friend in high school ages 11-16, we did everything together … Read more

03/4/16 1:59PM
Mom and purple hair
Jinx1990
02/27/16 11:36PM

So let me start by saying that my mother and I have clashed from day one with wedding planning.... From my bridesmaids, the groomsmen, the f… Read more

02/27/16 11:36PM

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Names after marriage - what did you do?
Greenjinjo
05/3/16 12:14AM

I'm interested to see what everyone here has done /is going to do about their names once married. At the moment I'm leaning towards keepin… Read more

05/3/16 12:14AM
Malapropisms - my personal hell
glasgowtolondon
05/4/16 8:43PM

I have a colleague who constantly misuses common phrases. It drives me up the wall. I used to correct her, but its all the gd time and there… Read more

05/4/16 8:43PM
Weekly Accountability 5/2 - 5/6
Swazzle
05/2/16 12:27PM

Monday, 5/2 Breakfast: TJ's High Fiber Cereal with skim and a banana (5), coffee with SF hazelnut creamer (1) Lunch: TJ's Chicken Tikka Ma… Read more

05/2/16 12:27PM
Is there such thing as too big of a bridal sh…
monkeysip
05/2/16 9:59PM

Just curious... do you think there's a maximum amount of guests you should invite to a bridal shower? I heard about a bridal shower the oth… Read more

05/2/16 9:59PM
Bye bye Ted
holyguacamole79
05/4/16 1:19AM

And Cruz is done.....http://www.cnn.com/2016/05/03/politics/ted-cruz-drops-out/index.html Read more

05/4/16 1:19AM
Friend didnt invite me to ladies night
Knottie1461111618
05/1/16 5:04PM

I am so upset, this girl from my church who I thought was my friend had a ladies night get together and posted pictures on FB, and when I as… Read more

05/1/16 5:04PM
Invites with two rsvp dates
[Deleted User]
04/29/16 5:21PM

Wondering if anyone has done this before?  I'm getting married early September and for several reasons which I won't get into, I feel like… Read more

04/29/16 5:21PM
Welcome to May!!!
labro
05/2/16 1:53PM

It's our first Monday in May so I thought it would be nice to do some highlights for the month! What are you most looking forward to in May… Read more

05/2/16 1:53PM
What is Your Present?
tigerlily6
04/29/16 8:45PM

Words of Wisdom:  I really wanted to get a scalp massage today (my sinuses are going out of control from allergies), but the salon was bo… Read more

04/29/16 8:45PM
Friday!!
Swazzle
05/6/16 12:19PM

Morning!  It's raining again and according the forecast it's basically going to rain forever.  Last night I did a focus group about pren… Read more

05/6/16 12:19PM
(Discussion) Washing hands at someone's home
spockforprez
05/2/16 9:37PM

Just had a bizarre experience. We had a visitor, someone we don't know well, visit the house just now. After we finished up she used the res… Read more

05/2/16 9:37PM
HELP!!!! What to do about a problem bridesmai…
Knottie00116129
05/5/16 4:56PM

Hi there-- My wedding is next weekend and one of my bridesmaids has really just sent me over the edge and I would to hear some opinion a… Read more

05/5/16 4:56PM
Am I too late?
PaperTigersx
05/2/16 12:46AM

my wedding is in October. We've been planning since about February. It's a small wedding (22 guests) and initially I wanted a MOH and FI wan… Read more

05/2/16 12:46AM
Baby Fever
tigerlily6
05/4/16 2:16PM

As I'm sure it normal for most of us, people's kids or pregnancy announcements from friends pop up on my newsfeed regularly. In the last mon… Read more

05/4/16 2:16PM
Sister is in a Wedding
Knottie1462112814
05/4/16 1:25AM

My sister was asked to be in a Wedding. She called me yesterday to complain about it. Apparently the bride sent out an email, asking for how… Read more

05/4/16 1:25AM
Bridal shower at the bride's house?
drglitter
04/29/16 3:45PM

My sisters offered to host a bridal shower for me. I was talking to one of them yesterday, and she said they were having difficulty finding … Read more

04/29/16 3:45PM
Exit from Reception
tigerlily6
05/1/16 12:42PM

Our reception venue has a hotel attached to it, so when my FH and I leave the reception, I am trying to figure out how to have any kind of "… Read more

05/1/16 12:42PM
Bad to Exclude His Family Photos?
Knottie1452565096
05/3/16 10:47PM

This isn't quite a woe, but I was unsure of which board it belongs... My FMIL is a little complicated (note: easily offended, hard to read,… Read more

05/3/16 10:47PM
Anybody want to help me choose a dress?
drglitter
05/1/16 10:07PM

I went dress shopping a couple of weeks ago with no idea what I wanted. It turns out I like strapless with bling and a poofy skirt. Who knew… Read more

05/1/16 10:07PM
Name Change Issues??
Knottie1432299083
05/3/16 7:08PM

I'm getting married in a little less than three weeks and have been trying to decide what I'm going to do about my name change. I know I eit… Read more

05/3/16 7:08PM
Thursday
mrs.conn23
05/5/16 1:52PM

The weather has been the worst this week.  Just gloomy, cold, and rainy.  I was off work yesterday and stayed in bed until about 11:30a. … Read more

05/5/16 1:52PM
Lost Engagement Ring
Knottie1436102627
04/30/16 11:47AM

About a month ago when I got home from work I took off my engagement ring, placed it inside the box, and went for a run. I normally don't we… Read more

04/30/16 11:47AM
Rehearsal Dinner RSVPs, Are they needed?
zerostarzombie
05/3/16 6:53PM

Hello, Is it common to have Rehearsal dinner RSVPs sent out to family and bridal party, or just word of mouth is okay? I was not sure. Read more

05/3/16 6:53PM
Low blow from my husband has me questioning e…
mrs.conn23
05/5/16 2:23PM

Dear Prudence, My husband and I are both freelancers in creative fields of work and do well financially. We save a little more now that we… Read more

05/5/16 2:23PM
Rain boots?
6fsn
05/2/16 3:33PM

After almost 2 hours of sneakers in the rain I've decided to pull the plug and get some boots.  Hunters are the brand around here, but I ca… Read more

05/2/16 3:33PM
Angsty.
RomanceManaged
05/3/16 3:25AM

So FI and I had a great venue lined up,  his Aunts gorgeous property, and she called and backed out today.  39 days to go and I am imagin… Read more

05/3/16 3:25AM
Outdoor Ceremony on Mountaintop. Standing Cer…
Knottie6056953
05/3/16 3:36AM

My fiancée and I were thinking about having our wedding ceremony here: They don't allow chairs, except for the elderly and those who need… Read more

05/3/16 3:36AM
Curb Appeal
kimmiinthemitten
04/29/16 4:45PM

We're refinancing our house, and it needs to appraise for $3,000 more than the initial appraisal 2 years ago.  We've since upgraded all of … Read more

04/29/16 4:45PM
Shower for an "older" bride
Lippenrieder
05/5/16 3:36PM

Fi and I will be 36 and 35 respectively when we get married. His youngest brother (23) just got engaged too and is planning a wedding the sa… Read more

05/5/16 3:36PM
Setting Boundaries
charlotte989875
04/30/16 1:33PM

So my mother had a problem with recognizing boundaries and when we planned the wedding last year I got a lot of practice in telling her, nic… Read more

04/30/16 1:33PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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