My fiance and I live in Las Vegas NV, but we are planning to have our wedding in Bay City/Midland Michigan (we were engaged in Bay City, and most of my family lives there, with his family being in neighboring states). Do I still invite everyone I would have invited if it were an in state wedding? We know a large percentage of people won't be able to afford the travel costs, and ideally we want to have a small wedding - this another reason we have chosen for it to be out of state; we would rather it be more convenient for our family than friends.. Anyhoo, My in state guest list peaks around 200 people and I'm not sure if I should just invite everyone even though we know 75% won't be attending.. Hmmmmmmmm...