Okay, I would like to preface this by saying I don't want to be a bridezilla, so I'm asking for advice because at this point in time, I really don't know what to do.
I have two problems:
One - a girl I asked to be in my bridal party is refusing to go along with basically anything that I am trying to do. For instance, she doesn't like our color scheme (the BMs are going to wear lavender), because she said it doesn't look good on her, and she wants to wear a different color. Also, when the BMs tried on dresses, I put it to a vote whichever dress the majority of them liked would be the one they would wear. Problem is, she doesn't like the dress that all of the other BMs did, so she's refusing to buy it and thinks she should be able to get the dress she wants in the color she wants. Any advice for how to deal with this?
Two - one of my BMs told another girl that I want her to be a BM as well. Problem is, I don't. How do I tell her she's not going to be in my wedding party without hurting her feelings or making her feel like she was cut from a job she supposedly was going to have?