So I've been engaged a few months now and we're not getting married until freakin June of 2015.
I've had one friend flat out ask me if she could be a BM, one friend offer to throw me an engagement party if I made her a BM (because that's a BM job?!? Wtf!), and one friend who I haven't been close to in a year (but have been friends with for ever) start talking to me again and give me a talk about who I "really" want in my wedding party, people I just met or people I've been friends with forever, even if I hadn't been close to this person or persons, I knew that I'd been friends with them for a really long time....
1) wtf?!? I have NEVER asked to be in anyone's wedding.
2) why would anyone WANT to be a BM?? It's a lot of work and costs money even if your bride is the most considerate!
3) Who picks their bridal party 19 months before the wedding??? I mean I'm a super planner and I want a lot of things figured out ASAP but not the bridal party!
Rant over... For now