Invites and Paper
Inviting Guests after First "Round" of invites go out
My FI and I seem to have a misunderstanding about invites. I've complied the list of invites so they can be sent out. FI keeps telling me he may add "one or two more" later so he is not giving me those addresses now. And FFIL has one couple he may add later too.....Not sure when "later" is, since RSVP date is Feb 8 for our March 1 wedding and the invites are going out after the holidays. Someone is doing calligraphy and so by adding people "later" he states we can just throw a label on the envelope and not worry about the calligraphy. Keep in mind, my parents who are 5 hrs away actually have the invites and are getting the response cards, not us. And the tension btw my family and this entire planning of wedding is crazy. So, thoughts? Opinions? How do I straighten him out? He doesn't seem to understand a lot of etiquette with weddings.....and I'm pretty sure he won't think anything of making someone essentially a "B lister". oye.....
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