phira said:My partner says he cannot talk to his brother about this, and I mostly understand. We're going back to our therapist to try to figure out some solutions so we can handle her better as a team. If she takes another shit on our wedding, I honestly might get nasty, though. Her wedding was AWFUL; it was a huge etiquette hot mess, and even if it hadn't been, it still wouldn't have been any fun to attend. Maybe next time she comments on how terrible our wedding sounds, in that obnoxiously backhanded "not REALLY overtly rude" way, I'll just say, "Well, I'd rather make my own paper flowers than tell my guests they have to bring them," and then saunter away like a badass.
I'm adding random because I really wanted to share-Saturday at noon there was a knock on the door from a furniture delivery we haven't bought any furniture I start to say wrong house, FI comes to the door and says where to deliver it in the house. FI was in cahoots with my parents on our very large very generous Xmas gifts- they bought us a bar!!! It is so nice, two swivel bar chairs, granite counter tops. I love it, can't wait to have people over. Now our wine room is almost complete we just need a TV for that room now. Yay