My fiance and I dont attend church regularly but dont picture getting married anywhere besides in a church. I grew up going to my hometown church but our pastor passed away a few years ago and it has been atleast 10 years since I attended services regularly. Although this church would be my first option, it has awful bright red carpet throughout and big floor to ceiling pillars in the aisle which doesn't allow everyone to see the altar area. So I have 2 dilemmas! How do I go about finding a church that will allow non-members to marry there AND my fiance and I would like my cousin to marry us. I just feel hopeless.. we live in a small town with not many options. Any suggestions are much appreciated!