There's so much debate about registries and honeymoon registries when it comes to not being rude. Here's how we're doing ours to avoid being seen as rude:
We did set up a honeymoon registry through our travel agent. She will book any excursions which we've put on our registry at the time, without any fee - Win! We told our parents and bridal party that's what we really want contributed to if people asked them. We've lived together for a while now, and lived on our own before, so we don't need anything and would much rather savor an experience. That said, we're leaving it up to them to spread that word. We set up a very small registry at Target to make the hint, and our wedding website says this under the registries tab:
"We have all the traditional things a new family could need, and your presence at our wedding and support of our marriage is all so much more than than any gift we could ever receive. If you still feel inclined to gift, please contact one of these people for some great ideas!
- my parents names
- his parents names
- travel agent's name & number
- registry store name