So I personally feel that good manners are essential to daily living and social interaction. I am beginning to learn that the belief I have is not one shared by many.
I currently live with my FSIL & FBIL because there house is literally 5 minutes away from the university I attend and the "rent" they charge me for room and all meals is practically nothing, it's less than the gas would cost to drive from my parent's house 45 minutes away to school every day, so it's a perfect solution until the wedding, right?
WRONG.
Ok, overall they are amazing people, especially for letting me stay here for the entire school year and making me feel like a part of the family. Its awesome because my FI will come over most nights after work and we will hang out with them and play with their adorable twin babies. Here's the thing though, the longer I love here, the longer I realize the complete lack of what I consider basic manners. FBIL walks around belching all day long. Every. Single. Day. It's not a medical condition, he just eats too much and drinks too much soda throughout the entire day. I swear he is in the kitchen 90% of the day (he's a SAHD). I can hear it in practically every room of the house and it is never followed by "excuse me". NEVER. I've even caught FSIL doing the same now!
So I deal with this at "home" and at the beginning of the year I started working in an office on-campus, and one of my co-workers will do the same thing - overload on soda and not excuse himself. I get it, everyone burps, but in the workplace? All freaking day? (Yes, he's a fellow college student but he prides himself on being "the most professional student worker in the office" because he's 26, a whopping 2 years older than me).
Am I crazy for being this bothered by a lack of manners? Because I am seriously losing it.