My fiancee and I just recently finalized our engagement (it was an open idea for awhile, very nontraditional) and set a date of 12.13.14. My dreams are finally coming true, I'm marrying the man of my dreams and I want to have the most perfect wedding possible. However, now that we've delved into the land of wedding planning, anytime I say anything about the guest list (he only has his mom and dad left while I have 35 people in my close family circle) or any other facet of weddingland, he totally flips and turns into this monster that I've never seen, complete with rude remarks and it usually ends with me in tears and him ignoring me for a time. I really want him to be happy and to be apart of the wedding planning, and up until this point, he's never ever been this way with me...I'm just so confused, after finally settling on a date, he suddenly seems like he doesn't want to do it...I just need to know how to get through to him that I understand his concerns, and I want to make this as easy as possible for both of us so we can enjoy the wedding and have an even more beautiful marriage.