So I have a huge family and so does my fiance. There are no children invited, I told people to spread the word, and I hand made invitations with each guest's name on it so that they know the invitation is meant only for them. I have done all that I can do without actually writing on the invitation no children, no extra guests. However, I still have people who are calling other family members to see when the wedding will be and people who are planning to travel to the wedding.?????? ! WHAT IS THAT!!!! They are claiming to only want to come to the ceremony, but I am very worried that I will find little children and extra people trying to crash the reception. I'm very upset about this because we truly cant afford extra people which is why we didn't invite them in the first place. What do you think I should do to discourage wedding crashers and children?