So my friend from work called me last week to tell me that he and his partner can't come to my wedding. He previously told me that they were coming, that he is so excited and that he wouldn't miss it.
He said they can no longer attend because they have to attend his partner's elderly aunt's surprise birthday party. I was really disappointed by this. I understand that family trumps friends but I felt like he already made a commitment to me and is now breaking it.
It has made me question the depth of our friendship. I know that he is flaky but I never thought he'd flake on my wedding. I really feel in my heart that we are not the friends I thought we were.
So I definitely recognize that I may be taking this too personally and of course no one is excited about my wedding as I am. I think I just feel disappointed and sad and needed to vent. Please feel free to slap me back into reality.