Im hoping you ladies might be able to help out a non-Catholic. I've been attending Mass with my Catholic boyfriend from time to time, and we've repeatedly been asked by an usher if we would like to present the bread and wine. I've been responding with a simple, pleasant No thank you, with the idea that since I'm not taking communion, I shouldn't be participating. I think that's fine, but I just wanted to check in case there's a more appropriate response.
Thanks!