So my fiance and I want to invite most (but not all) of our coworkers to our wedding. There are a few issues though and we are unsure how to go about them. We both are part of management at our jobs that are open 7 days a week until late in the evening. This being said, clearly not everyone will be able to make it/take off for our wedding, some might have to come late in the night once our stores are closed. Since we do not want everyone that we work with at our wedding, we clearly can not just put up the invite in the breakrooms for everyone to see. We also don't want to do individual invites since my work especially has a LOT of coworkers that we would want to come. My fiance thought we could just personally talk to each coworker and invite them by word of mouth, but then how do I know whos actually coming & when. Clearly not everyone can take off for our wedding so people may be coming in shifts (some only might be able to make it for the ceremony, some only for part of dinner, others only coming for the dancing portion). What is the best way to handle this so that we are able to invite those we want, not rubbing it in anyones face who we might not want at the wedding, but also so that i have a pretty acurate head count for our seating arrangement (since we are having sections for friends and sections for coworkers).