Our venue is somewhat limited in space, but we had really fallen in love with the location, the convenience and etc. If we did more of a small-plate idea where appetizer-sized portions would be served through most of the reception, permitting more movement, would that sound "worth it" to a guest? The disparity in the size of our families is so large (he has 5x the number of family members invited) that the formal sit-down meal would seem a little out of place.
Thoughts? Suggestions? Is anyone else planning something alternative to traditional dinner?