I'm having a really silly dilemma and I figured this was the best place to ask for advice:) for a long time I have thought I wanted my bridal shower to be "Tiffany-themed". I love Tiffany&co and I love the color so much (but didn't want it as my wedding color) so a bridal party seemed like the perfect solution. It was actually my mom's suggestion awhile ago after we attended a friend's shower and when she told me I liked it. Not overly themed but the Tiffany blue decoratins and white bows, etc etc.
100% unexpectedly, my fiancé got me my dream engagement ring from Tiffany. Even though I haven't told most people where the ring came from, now I feel like a Tiffany themed shower can come across as tacky. I'm not at all suggesting a tiffany ring is worth bragging about, it's just a ring, but I don't know if it can be interpreted that way to some people.
If that makes any sense.
I told my mom and sister I wasn't sure my fiancé or I was comfortable with the shower idea anymore and they're upset. They don't seem to understand.