My wedding is Saturday(OMG!!!!!) and I received my first wedding gift this past Friday. I had my shower thank yous out within 2 weeks of the party. Generally speaking, most weddings I have been to, have included a small picture of the bride and groom with the thank you, I would really like to do this as well. My photographer said it will be at least 4 weeks(probably closer to 6 weeks) for us to have our digital files ready after our wedding. Realistically, how long do I have to send out "thank yous" before I start offending people. I have seen ettiquette guidelines say 6 weeks, but that would eliminate my ability to include the pictures. I plan on having a real handwritten thank you note, not these crappy pre-written un personalized things you can order on line. I would really like to avoid doing what my cousin did and waiting a long time and saying "Hahaha, better late than never"