Is it inappropriate for bridesmaids to pay for their own hair and make-up? I'd like them to have up-do's and none of them have the skills to do their own hair and two of them are just as inept as I am to do their own make-up.
Also, and this may be the most rude thing I have ever done before, but I am considering giving one of my bridesmaids an 'out.' She recently expressed that she wished I had called her and 'fired' her from a bridesmaid's role due to finances. She also expressed tremendous relief when I explained that I am considering not having a bachelorette party or bridal shower (although I would really like to have a co-ed bridal shower).
She can't afford the dress, the hotel room (shes out of town), the hair/make-up, and other bridesmaids expenses. I won't remove her invite of course, just the obligations that being part of a bridal party brings.