I am getting married for the second time after 28 years and raising my 4 children, I have been lead back to my true love. We are having a very short straight to the point church ceremony and then off to the reception full of family, friends, fun and excitement. I have found several dresses that would be considered mostly evening or special occasion dresses that are Black and I can add a silver sash (which is one thing I would like to do). My question would be is it appropriate for me to wear a black dress. The ones that I have been looking at give a flowing, lite and airy feel and when I look at them I get much more excited than I do at wasting money on a wedding dress. I am having such a hard time with making a decision that I have put off getting my dress and my wedding date is May 24, 2014. Help me I just can't commit.