My brother informed my fiance tonight that he is not going to be a groomsman in our wedding (May 24) because we are adulterers and he can not stand up there as a witness BUT he can be a guest. (don't guest witness?) His reason: we are adulterers because we have both been married before and divorced. If we marry then we will not enter God's kingdom. If he stands up there with us, he won't either. He also said that he is not judging or condemning us. Really?
He is leaving it up to us as to whether or not we want him to attend as a guest. If not, he will "understand."
I cant truly begin to sort my feelings out with any good rationale. The only things I know for sure are that I want to throw up; I'm extremely shocked and hurt; and I truly cant handle one more drama filled thing! I also want to take the loss thus far, $15,000. and elope. Screw it all! It's just all too much!