We've sent our STD to a couple that we are friends with who have a 20-21 year old daughter who just had a baby and lives at home with them. I addressed the envelope to Mr & Mrs. Guest. I did not include the daughter's name nor did I include "and family."
I received an email from Mrs. Guest saying how excited they are and how excited their daughter is also. Then went on to say they weren't sure how daughter was going to get to wedding (it's in Las Vegas) and how they were going to drive but thought that it might be too long of a drive for daughter and new baby.
How do I politely tell her that daughter isn't invited? We really don't want to extend an invitation to the daughter as then I'm thinking they would want boyfriend/baby's father to attend and then I feel like we should extend the invitation to their other two kids which would put us at potentially 6 extra people we weren't counting on to begin with. The hard part is that they are close friends.
Thanks in advance!