Let me start out by saying that I am 6 months pregnant and getting married on the deck at a baseball game during one of the inning breaks. It's not going to be on the big screen and is mainly just our family and a few close friends (yes I have permission from the park to do this). Since it's not a "traditional" wedding, I'm not wearing a traditional gown. I'm wearing the gown that's hanging. My fiance went shopping with his daughter and bought her a similar dress without knowing what mine looked like. When I told him how upset I was and that I thought she should take it back and get something different, he got bent out of shape and asked why it was such a big deal and told me I can return my dress and get a new one. He found out rather quickly that this is my 3rd dress and there was no way I was getting a new one as this is my wedding and she should return it and get something different. The wedding is in less than 2 weeks and frankly I'm fed up with everything and dealing with the wedding and work and being pregnant I'm almost ready to call the whole thing and get my money back and just go to the courthouse. Off track, sorry... What I'm wondering is do I just throw my hands up and say whatever, let her wear the dress or do I stick to my guns and say no, I will not look similar to my 15 year old step daughter on my day?