My fiance and I have lived together for years and don't need much in the way of housewares, plus we are in NYC and therefore have very little space for stuff. We'd like to register somewhere so people don't feel adrift if they want to buy us a gift (lord knows no one HAS to buy us anything!), but honestly the usual sheets/appliances/dishes are unnecessary. The idea of a "honeyfund" strikes me as too opportunistic and tacky, but what is the consensus on "experience" registries? I'm seeing more and more options for registries that offer fun, local activities for couples to do together. It's the kind of gift I would give a person for their birthday or a holiday, but is it still okay for a wedding registry? I would go without a registry entirely but you'd be shocked at how much people in my family seem to lean on it for ideas. I have lingering doubts because I wonder if half the point of wedding gifts is to be "useful" somehow in helping set up a couple's new life together (I do recall finding it tacky as hell when a family friend put a Wii on their registry a few years back--like, that ain't a toaster) so maybe asking for fun things is not as appropriate as asking for housewares. Thoughts? It seems like this is almost a philosophical question: Where does one draw the line when it comes to the tricky business of letting people know what you might enjoy?
This baby knows exactly how I feel