So, let me just start by stating that I AM NOT looking for a pity party, as some people whom i've asked opinions of seem to assume.
Now here is the question/dilemma:
I have very few friends. VERY FEW. The friends i do have, i DO NOT want to be in my wedding party.
Whereas my Fiance, has numerous friends, so many that if he left anyone out of his side of the wedding party, someone would be offended.
My Fiance has already stated that he does not want un even sides, we both need to have the same number of people at our sides when we say "I do".
This is totally fine by me, so we have now decided to make it easy on both of us, do a one person each, family only, wedding party.
I will have my sister be my MOH and his brother in law will be his best man.
But my sister lives 4hours away, and cant be here for me to help with what i believe would be helpful, (mailing out invitations, helping ,me pick out reception decor, etc.)
Do you think i can ask a friend to help me, without having to be fully responsible as a MOH would be?
I am so stuck on what to do, any suggestions would be extremely helpful, even if it means considering different wedding party arrangements,
Thanks!