FI and I live 8 hours apart. We discussed possibly going to a B&B in the Hill Country of TX for our HM. He lives in San Antonio, so it would be somewhat close to home. That would be perfect, especially if I'm already moved. We would also have the rest of Christmas break after the HM to get settled.
His thought is that we'll wait to do the move after the wedding and take a trip later, maybe next summer. The only problem with that is he's trying to get a commission as an officer in the Navy once he graduates, and if he's selected....it would probably be next summer....
I don't need or want a big trip or something elaborate, but if we go straight from the wedding to moving, then back to work and school....I feel like we're missing out on time we're never going to get back. Even if we don't do anything, we need to take some time out for ourselves after the wedding.
Thoughts? We can't seem to come to an agreement on this yet.