So, I have four bridesmaids and my MOH (my sister) and I decided to let all of them pick out their own dresses. We are doing a 1920s old hollywood/ballroom wedding and I just told them all that any dress that fits into that era is fine by me. Their only requirements were something in the brown, black, or glitzy color range (champagne, taupe, beige, chocolate brown, black, silver, gold, bronze, etc, etc). We've thrown links back and forth for the last few months on different ideas and everyone seems to be excited about it.
I asked each lady to send me a pic of their dress before they bought it just so I could see it, and to send me confirmation when they had purchased the dress. My wedding is mid-October and since we're not ordering from a dress boutique my timeline is different (don't need 3.5 months like some places request).
That being said, other than my sister who I have chatted with regularly about her choices since she'll be super preggo at the time, none of the girls have gotten in touch about potential dress options or verified that they'd purchased one yet.
One of my girls even told me that she is going to wait until August or September to purchase one because she's in the process of losing weight.
Basically, I'm just wondering if I should set a deadline date for when I want their dresses purchased by ... and if so, when a reasonable time frame for that would be?
I'd like to purchase some jewelry for them to wear at the wedding and would like to some time to pick it out (knowing what they all are wearing) and I'd also like to set up a day where we all get together to go buy our shoes together, get lunch, etc.
Knowing my wedding is October 18th, is there a time you'd want everyone to have their dress in hand and be ready to go? At what point should I get in touch and let them know they need to start finalizing their decisions?