My older sister and her fiance have set a date!!! It is just under a year from now. I could not be more excited!! When I found out I was walking around all day with this dopey idiotic smile on my face. I am definitely more excited for their wedding than for my own.
So, our little sister and I will be the two MOHs/bridesmaids (she is not singling one of us out, but I'm not sure yet what we'll be 'officially' called, not that it matters).
And I know that the only official duties, per etiquette, are to buy a dress and smile for the photos and stand with her. And along those lines, I appreciate completely the regulars on these boards fighting the good fight to treat your friends like they are friends, not unpaid wedding labourers.
BUT, I actually AM excited to participate in this wedding. So with that in mind, I wanted to ask brides on here: what was the most helpful thing a bridesmaid or MOH did for you or for your wedding? What is the most important thing to keep in mind? What do you remember most about the wedding party's involvement? Oh, and what stupid things should I avoid doing? (I hope I don't do anything stupid; basically this would just be a good excuse to post hilarious horror stories.)
Thank you for any help!