Ok... my name is Meg..i am the bride... i am having serious trouble with one of my girls, claire... we have known eachother for two years.. she is all drama. And ive never had an issue, thats who she is. But she decided to move across country five months before the wedding, for no reason by the way, just up and left. That isnt the issue either, im not going to tell her what to do with her life. Nor am i incharge of it. But, the past three weeks or so i have been getting nothing but complaints. From claire, saying she isnt involved in the wedding and how she thinks everyone hates her, and from the other girls, along with my future mother in law saying what an attitude claire has. I let them work it over, i dont want to be involved. But then claire texts me being completely rude, insulting my work ethic (which is good i work 3 jobs while going to school), and telling me i need to get over myself. Now, i am very laid back. I do not consider my self a bridezilla at all. Claire has completely pissed me off and after several other things were said, i dont even want to look at her. How do i politely remove her from the party? I realize it will be burning a bridge and thats ok with me. I also dont want to have to worry about how claire is doing through the whole thing, if shes being included, and i dont want tostress about if she will even be able to make it back in time for the wedding. I know money is tough so dont bring that up, bc i get it. I just dont want to even look at her...and i dont want to feel any sort of bad on my wedding day. I will offer to pay for her dress but i need a nice way of letting her go.bc i am done.