This article
HERE talks about the average costs of being a bridesmaid. ("Being a Bridesmaid is Driving Me to the Brink of Bankruptcy" - Jezebel.com)
I'm side-eyeing it mostly because all a BM is expected to do is show up in the right dress at the right time at the right place and preferably sober.
I'm not having showers, or a bachelorette, and the girls can wear any shoes they want. We are doing each other's hair and I have a lovely makeup arsenal we can use. Manicures aren't necessary either. I was very aware of any costs the gals may incur along the way...
Is the number quoted sound right in the article? Their numbers do come from TheKnot...