I just finished and mailed out the last of the thank you cards from my bridal shower that was not this past weekend but the one before. 3 of the cards I received say that my gift is in the mail to arrive at my house. I haven’t received anything from these 3 people and the registry items are all accounted for in the thank you cards I already sent out. Do I write a thank you card or wait until I receive the gift? Should I let them know that I didn’t receive their gift? Also, one of my bridesmaids wrote in her card that she got me the waffle maker and it was in the mail. It still shows as unpurchased on the registry so I texted her to see if I should take it down from the registry and she didn’t answer. She ignored the text and later texted me to show me her shoes she is getting for my wedding. I already wrote her a thank you card since she told me what the gift was. Should I mention it again or let it go?