I'm not sure where to put my stepdad in my ceremony. My stepdad and I aren't really that close, but there's no bad blood or anything. I am close with my dad, so he will be "giving me away" (hate saying that), but I don't know what role I can give my stepdad. The only reason I'm stressing over this so much is because we're having a fairly large, expensive wedding and my dad and stepdad are splitting the cost 50/50. I feel like my dad will be a little put off if I ask both of them to give me away, but I think my stepdad will be upset if there's no room for him in the ceremony. Has anyone had this problem? What do I do? I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. Also, I thought about having my stepdad officiate (that one time ordained thing you can do), but this job has already been given to my future grandfather in law.