So my Fiance and I have decided to opt for a Destination wedding within' the US in Cape Cod. We have everything planned out and ready and thankfully it has gone well!
Our only issue is the topic of filing for marriage.
We learned that in Mass. the only way to get additional copies of your marriage license down the road you have to visit the same town hall in the exact town that you filed for marriage in. Being from NY and slightly over 8 hour drive from there it doesn't make that an easy task should we ever need to do that. My fiance says he would now rather get pre-married (file in NY and get married at the court house) the day before we leave and do a ceremony still up there. He says it gives him piece of mind, that I do agree with. We are thinking of doing this all on the quiet to prevent family and guest from finding out. I have actually read about people doing it once before.
Has anyone else done anything like this prior to their wedding? If so how did you deal with it, keep it quiet, or if any did find out combat any trouble you get from people.