Not sure if I posted this in the incorrect forum but it seemed like the best place to ask this question:
My fiance and I are not all that interested in having a bachelor or bachelorette party. Both the BM and one of my bridesmaids keeps pushing for one. Fiance is super against it and the BM decided he's just going to do one anyway for him and has asked me not to spill the beans to FI. Although, I don't think my FI is going to be happy about it.
Someone suggested that we do a co-ed last night get-together in lieu of said bachelor or bachelorette parties. When I suggested this to my bridesmaid, she thought it was weird and so did my brother.
Also, not sure how a co-ed last night party would work either.
What do you guys think? Bad idea? And if not a bad idea, would be the logistics?